I've been tagged by HEATHER!

What is his name? Joe
How long have you been together? Our 1st date? Feb 1999... First kiss? May 31 1999...
How long did you date? Well, if you count from our 1st date? 9 months before we were married... from our 1st kiss? 6 months.
Who eats more? Joe
Who said I love you first? I think Joe - all I remember is a conversation where he asked if i could ever "potentially" love him...
Who is taller? Joe
Who sings better? joe is actually a pretty good singer - i even got him to sing w/our ward choir... my voice is pretty generic, and although i can sing, i am stuck behind the piano all the time... and joe's deep voice fills the room and i LOVE to hear him sing! i love to hear him speak too... he just has that magical deep voice...
Who is smarter? joe - hands down... although i think i am smart, joe is MEGA GENIOUS.
Whose temper is worst? we both have a bad temper... a few times joe has blown up, but he brushes things off pretty well - i blow up all the time, and i scream and yell and threaten like a mad woman.
Who does the laundry? me...
Who does the dishes? me...
Who pays the bills? joe or me... depends...
Who mows the lawn? joe
Who cooks dinner? Mcdonalds... Lean Cuisine...
Who drives when you are together? Joe - he and i both agree i am a terrible driver.
Who is more stubborn? we both are.
Who is the first to admit that they are wrong? me - joe is never wrong ;)
Who's parents do you see the most? Joe's - mine live too far away.
Who kissed who first? Joe - can you believe it??? i was SUCH a lady. we were 'hangin out' for almost 3 months before he made a move! our 1st kiss wasnt till he FLEW out to mesa to visit me! can you believe it? that is prob why we got married - FINALLY someone i didnt kiss on (or even before) our first date!
Who asked who out? Joe - he 1st had to kick his 'old trash' to the curb but as soon as he met me he was IMMEDIATELY smitten!!! ;)
Who purposed? Joe - and i was SOOO surprised. i wasnt even expecting it... i thought maybe it would happen in several months but WOAH he just popped the question - i couldnt believe it. but that is why i fell in love with him - he is so spontaneous!
Who has more friends? i think i am generally the more social one... but he has a lot of friends too...
Who wears the pants in the family? Joe - i am the submissive perfect 1950s wife. seriously.

NOW I TAG... EVERYONE!

It must be Thursday

yes, it is YET another verbose and imageless blog post from me.

I have been really busy lately. Every time I am busy, I think of my MOM. She is the queen of independance, and productivity. Seriously, if there is a spare 30 minutes in a day, it is spent cleaning out a closet or getting a project done...I remember my mom always saying "time expands to fit the purpose". Well, mom, you would be proud of all I have gotten done in the last 2 days. BUT, rather than listing it all out (which is exhausting to even think about), I will just say that everything I have done is pretty brainless (like in sewing, running errands, sewing, waiting at appointments, cleaning, kid stuff, school stuff... etc.), and my thoughts have had lots of time for wandering.

If you couldn't tell where this was going, let me just say I have been thinking a lot about my MOM - she was a 'work widow' with 6 kids... I dont know how she did it. We were crazy children, but my mom dealt with us SOOO well. Here, I feel like I am going NUTS, but she handled it all with grace and I am just so impressed with her and all she was able to do. Right now, I am really lonely - Joe has been so busy this week we have hardly had time to talk (our phone conversations have been there, but BRIEF)... I keep trying to feel sorry for myself, but I think of her, and the MILLIONS of other people who have done it without complaining... LUCKILY, my spouse gets home tonight (late). We will hopefully have a good weekend, and I will be recharged for the week ahead.

I just wanted to say how amazed I am by the strength my mom had while we were growing up. Mom, you are awesome, and someday I want to be just like you! I am so glad she is going to move out closer to me! I am SO lucky!

Quick update

Here is my FF avatar - ya, i am WT and proud!

1. This week's football was depressing to say the least - I managed to eek out a win in 1800EatCrap and Junior Varsity (where i remain undefeated) but I lost in the other leagues. Even more depressing was the Cowboy's game Sunday afternoon. Joe and i flew home from the reunion just in time to catch it - but, it turned out to be depressing. We had to take a while to mourn. But, I guess I was happy for the college football upsets. Those always make me smile. (sorry LSU fans)

2. I finally took my kids to the dentist for the 1st time ever. They had no cavities - but I do... tomorrow I am going back...

3. I got my body fat tested at the gym. The trainer said that my % was fine, but i should really try to eat better and be more effective in my workouts if I ever wanted results. um, i knew that already.

4. I am really tired, and would like to just sit or sleep all day... but i cant.

Greatful Monday

Today I am grateful for:

blogs. I LOVE reading about, looking at pictures, and catching up on people. I was happy to see some blogging people at the reunion I went to as well. People who need to blog so I can keep better in touch with them: Becky, Emily (all of the Emilys from mesa), Lacey, Teri... oh i wish everyone blogged!

Charity. I am grateful for all my kids, but today, Charity woke up and wanted to make everyone's beds. I didnt even ask her. She came downstairs and said, "Mom, come look! I made the beds" sure enough, all the beds were made as good as a 4 yr old can make them. Seriously, how sweet!

My 10 Year Reunion

So, I went to my 10 year HS reunion last weekend. I must admit, I LOVED IT!!!
I was so overwhelmed! It was so fun to catch up with everyone and see them again!
After 10 years, pretty much everyone is STILL THE SAME. I just wish I would have taken more pictures! I also wish I could have spent more time catching up with people too! High school was so fun for me! I was thrilled to see so many of those people who were in my life (at that crucial time) and see how they are doing, and see that they are happy etc... It makes me miss MESA. Thanks, Joe, for being such a good sport. Also, thanks for upgrading us to 1st class on the way home - I was so tired, and it made that EARLY flight SO MUCH BETTER! I have the best husband in the world!

What a game

All I can say is WOW, what a game! To be honest, I gave up, it was so ugly, I had to turn my head. This comeback will go down in history - 2 mins left - TD, failed 2ptConv. RECOVERED onside kick... couple passes down field, 54 yd fieldgoal to WIN!!!WOW. What a game. Go Cowboys!!!!! (it was an ugly win, but i'll take it!)
ps, i won all 4 of my fantasy matchups for this week as a result ;) I am glad i picked up Crayton.... again, i know the way the wind is blowing with my BOYS!!!

Grateful Sunday (woops Monday)

Today I am grateful for:
1. A husband that has a job. Today I spent some money (I hope he is not mad) and although I had a twinge of guilt, it passed. Thanks for supporting me Joe! ;)
2. The kids had a day off school today. It was fun to spend the day hanging out with them for a change (especially Aaron, who I never get to see anymore). We took Joe to the airport(I need both cars this week), went to the gym, hung out with Phanelb and her kids A, B, and C Farnsworth, and went to the pumpkin patch... all before 4pm, now we can just hang out at home cause football practice is cancelled cause of rain!! (hey steph, how convenient is it that your kids names start with A, B and C... did you plan that?)
3. My sweet children. They are so patient with me and easygoing. PLUS they are cute and fun and sweet and well, here are some pics from the pumpkin patch.

Six Flags

So, last night, we went to six flags (just Joe and I and some friends and NO kiddos)

I was so excited cause we finally got a chance to ride rides together and not take turns with the kids etc. I have always loved roller coasters. I thought I was so tough. But alas, my physical age is taking over my mental, and after riding front row (as shown in this video) of the MR FREEZE RIDE:

I was not feeling like my usual self. I thought the feeling would pass... so we rode on the BATMAN ride. I TOTALLY BLACKED OUT! What???? Needless to say, I sat out of most of the other rides for the evening, but I couldn't resist the TITAN... So, here we are the morning after, and i am STILL spinning and feeling nauseous. Even with my little 'hang over' as a consequence (no alchohol involved), I TOTALLY LOVED it! ;)

EEEEWWWWW

so, i was walking by my powder bathroom turning out lights and i saw a HUGE spider.

out of instinct, i grabbed a nearby shoe, and proceeded to smash it. all of a sudden hundreds of tiny spiders started crawling out of the dead mother. seriously, i have the heebiegeebies just posting about it. joe called and is almost home... i think i am going to leave this for him to clean up????

Man Jaw

My jaw began popping shortly after Joe & I got married (8 yrs ago). I always felt like my bite was wrong - like it didn't know where to go. My jaw was ALWAYS tired and sore. I couldn't hold my mouth open without my jaw locking and cramping. I couldn't bite into hamburgers. FINALLY, I decided to go see an orthodontist and see if it wasn't just a problem with my bite. (Thanks Dave F. for the idea). I went to a HIGHLY recommended orthodontist here, and my appointment went like this:

He looked at my teeth and how they allign; he did x-rays; he talked to me and heard my complaints. All these things in my mind pointed to TMJ. I sat in the chair and he felt my jaw and looked at me when I bit down. What did BOTH Dr. Collins and his assistant say? "Your jaws are like Arnold Schwartzenager's! The muscles in there are so PUMPED". The final diagnosis? In my own words: Man Jaw. So, I have since been fitted with this masterpiece, and hopefully this will fix (or at least help me relax) my Man Jaw issues.

Don't mind the orange paint on my nose, Charity and I did an art project before we (like any good WT family) went to McDonalds for dinner ;)

Fantasy Football Update

So, I thought I would take a minute and recap (brag) about my fantasy football performance thus far. Here is the breakdown of the 4 leagues I am in:

Matchup for Week 4:

Junior Varsity League

(4-0) My team: 114.38
Star Performers:
Tom Brady - 21.64
Joseph Addai -15.73
Jason Witten - 10.73 - GO COWBOYS!
Disappointments:
Steve Smith - 2.13 (WHY DIDNT HE SHOW UP???)
DeShaun Foster - 3.4 (after 2 fumbles might get him booted off my team)

VERSUS: (1-3)Jeff: 65.96
Stars:
DEF Chicago - 19.0
Disappointments:
Donovan McNabb - 1.72

End Result??? VICTORY For ME!!!!! :)

1800EatCrap League

(2-2)Me: 84.84
Star Performers:
Jon Kitna - 16.11
T.J. Houshmandzadeh - 13.6 (My MAN!!!)
Barrett Ruud - 7 (I am glad I paid attention to news and notes, cause this guy ROCKS!)
Disappointments:
Marion Barber - 4.8 (my man is injured- but my cowboys NEED him to get better!!!)
San Diego DEF - 6.0 seriously, what happened to this team????

VERSUS: (2-2)Joe: 53.93
Stars:
N/A
Disappointments:
Carson Palmer - 7.85 (ok joe, for this week ONLY am i OK about you snaking him from me)
Anthony Henry - 2.0 (i am really sad cause he ROCKS and i hope he is better soon cause cowboys need him to get LOTS of interceptions!)

End Result??? MY VICTORY!!!! - joe, my sorry team beat YOU!!! YAY! in all fairness, i didnt see this one coming, and had palmer had a better game, maybe you would be the one bragging here.

TheTexasTussle2 League

(2-2)My Team: 153.95
Stars:
Peyton Manning - 36.35
DEF Chicago - 53.4 (still going strong for me!!!)
Barrett Ruud - 11.0 again, i was glad to add him to my team this week.
Disappointments:
Chad Johnson - 6.3 (Cincinnati just had a bad game???)
Todd Heap - 3.6 (now, i had him last year, and he seemed to get me a TD almost every game... he hasnt shown up yet)

VERSUS: (1-3) Jeff: 65.96
Stars:
DEF Chicago- 19.0
Disappointments:
Donovan McNabb - 1.72 really, i saw this coming - ever since his knee injury, he isnt the same. ya, he had a few good games, but i really think this is indicative of the type of player he has become - seriously, he is always blaming SOMEONE even pulling the race card? but i really think his prob isnt ONLY that he didnt have westbrook or his O-line was terrible - I think he is really STIFF and cant move around like he use to. 12 sacks come from being SLOW. that is why i didnt rush to pick him up this year in any of our live drafts... he was a STAR last year, but hmmm what is he this year?

End Result? MY VICTORY!!!!! :)

Consolation League:

(1-2)Me: 66.11
Stars:
Joseph Addai - 15.73 i picked him up game 2 of last year, and i fell in LOVE with him - i had a feeling he would be a LOT better than LT, and any of those other higher ranked RBs... i am just SOOO smart huh.
Disappointments:
Donovan McNabb - 1.72 i already gave my little spiel about him. lets just say this league was auto draft, so i got him. i am not quite ready to drop him (following Joe's logic, he didnt get me negative points, so he didnt lose his place on my roster JUST YET)
Marvin Harrison - 0.53 i will blame this on his injury, and hope he gets better
Chad Johnson - 3.53
Marion Barber - 4.8
DEF Miami - -1.0 Ok, this team got me negative points, so, will henceforth NOT be on my roster.
Anthony Henry - 2.0 I will blame his lack of production solely to his injury, and i wish him a speedy recovery

VERSUS: (2-1)Michelle: 102.22
Stars:
Tom Brady - 21.64
Randy Moss - 18.8 Michelle has a great duo working for her... i think this pair (at least in points production) will be even better than manning-harrison or wayne
Adrian Peterson - 12.77
Disappointments:
Joey Galloway - 0.47

End Result??? LOSS :(
HOWEVER, notice that i had a lot of supposedly GREAT players that had a really disappointing game, while Michelle had stars, and only 1 disappointment. now i am left with injuries and bye weeks...

Overall, i feel pretty good... still lots of room for improvement.

Grateful Sunday (Woops, Monday)

Today I am grateful for the RS broadcast that I actually went to. Ya, I always seem to forget about them, but this time I actually WENT!
I am just really grateful for the inspiration. I am motivated to be a better person now.

I am also grateful for my kids. I just tried a hurry-up throw the kids in bed, and didn't do prayers. WELL, I just caught my sweet son Aaron sneaking into Charity's room to say prayers - just the 2 of them. Standing downstairs, I was able to hear the prayer they said - they remembered people who are sick, and they prayed for eachother to not be scared. Seriously, HOW CUTE IS THAT????

Football

Here's some shots from Aaron's football game today. Although I can't say I like USC at all... I am (at least for this season) a TROJAN fan!

Low maintenance

I have always considered myself to be a "low maintenance" girl. Maybe a better way to describe myself is a "LACK of maintenance" girl. I have been the same all my life. I wash my face (in the shower) with Irish Spring. I wear jeans and a solid color T-shirt every day. I don't "do" my hair - I put it in a pony tail or a braid. Well, on birthdays, anniversaries, and special dates, I will actually blow-dry my hair, but those times are few and far between. I use whatever lotion is cheapest. Do I need to go on? I like to wear clothes that are VERY versatile - versatile enough for a colorblind MAN to walk into my closet and pick out a suitable outfit. I am also dealing with a severe handicap when it comes to accessorizing. All of my makeup can fit in the palm of my hand - I wear mascara, Lipfinity (because it stays on till the next morning), and eyeliner - that is it. I tried powder for my Texas wedding reception 8 years ago - it was the wrong color. I had to throw all the pictures away. Seriously, could NO ONE tell me to take off my makeup when I looked so bad???? This is seriously embarrassing, but I really am CLUELESS. Every once in a while, I will lose my mind and say "I want to feel like a woman!" So, I'll go out and do something drastic. 2 years ago, I got highlights (I got rid of those). I’ve also been known to chop my hair all off into crazy layers, or go get an acrylic manicure or pedicure that lasts all of 3 days. On one occasion, I even bought an eye cream from Arbon. Ok, are you getting the picture? I have never been able to rationalize spending TONS of money on "beauty products", and when I do, I either feel really silly and selfish, or I buy something completely WRONG. So my question is: does anyone know of a low maintenance way to be more feminine or beautiful? Does someone use a magic sauce for their skin that doesn’t require a 3-5 step process in the morning and night? There's GOT to be something I can do that doesn't add too much "beautification" time to my routine.

What is the reason for this? I looked in the mirror today. I am starting to look old.

Help?

Charity Sings

So, Charity loves this song, and she sings it ALLLL the time.

I just think she is so cute when she sings. At 4 she has quite an ear - she even plays this on the piano. I laugh at the concerned look on her face though. This is for you grandma. I just needed it documented cause I dont think she will be confusing her f's and th's much longer...

Cute things:

First, see my baby Nate: Seriously, while I was unloading the dishwasher, he helped!!! He just went to town on the silverware. I didn't even ask him to do it!!! He just started taking utensils one tiny handful at a time from the dishwasher to the silverware drawer. He was so pleased with himself. Honestly, I was pleased too! WOW! all this help and he isnt even 18 months yet!!!



Then, see Aaron and Charity. What happens when you have to ignore your children all afternoon so you can teach piano? They run around looking like WT - sweaty and barefoot with REALLY dirty feet. The pictures dont do it justice. Oh yea, notice the cool Blue Angels costume I made for Aaron last Halloween. He wears this ALL the time! It is a little small for him now, and it is getting holes in the knees - but he STILL loves it! (I think it's GOT TO BE uncomfortable cause the jumpsuit is encroaching his "personal space")... Anyways, when I tried to get them ready for tonight's football practice, i noticed how gross they were... So, they started modeling their feet - they were so proud.

3 Noteworthy tidbits:
1. I was so sad, but I told 3 of my students I couldn't teach them anymore. I started crying when I was talking to this one mom. I love my students so much, and it will be so hard for me to let them go... but I really do think I will be a better mom if I scale back to only a few kids on one day.
2. SOOO glad I didn't get L.T. in any of my Fantasy Football leagues - he really hasn't produced this year (yet)... I did get Drew Brees (due to my husband thinking he was doing me a favor) but I dropped him for Kitna - I wonder how that will play out...
3. Speaking of Fantasy Football... I am not doing too bad! YAY! credit it to the fact I am in 4 leagues (so my heart isnt broken if I lose in 1 of them). PLUS, my FAVORITE team, the COWBOYS are doing quite well so far. Also, I am simply a GREAT fantasy football player ;).

Grateful Sunday

Today I am grateful for being a member of my church. Members whose lives are crashing in around them are blessed with a built-in support and service MACHINE. Seriously, it is a well-oiled machine. I am SO unbelievably grateful for that. I am also grateful for the friends I have met through my membership in this church. I have been blessed to know some VERY great people.

One of those people is Courtney Flynn. She is SO amazing. She is always happy and she has the best outlook on life. She is the worlds greatest listener, and SO sweet and SO kind. She is also beautiful. I could go on and on about the things she has taught me. We were supposed to go on a girls' night Friday night, but girls' night was cancelled. I was so sad cause i haven't seen her for EVER (we aren't in the same ward anymore)... Sadly, it was cancelled cause she was diagnosed with leukemia. Anyways, this is a quote from an email we got from her husband todd:

She is strong though, and that strength was evident only moments after the diagnosis, after the sobs subsided, when she quipped, "And I just spent an entire year growing my hair out."

Back to being grateful: the machine is in full force, and although I am not in her ward anymore, I hope i can be a part of it too.

Anyways, so many people go through hard times, and especially on a day like today, I am grateful that if/when a need arises, I, too, can rely on people who love me and WANT to help even though they aren't even in my family.

So please add the Flynns to your prayers. She has 4 children (the oldest is 8 and the youngest is almost 2). Also, add my neice Jillian - she is only 4 and has leukemia too (I posted about her when she was daignosed in July).

Sanity at 1pm

So, this is what i am doing right now.

I am enjoying my cookies and milk. It is "treats at noon" as my mom calls it. Although it is a bit past noon, it is the perfect time for a snack - i sneek these while my kids are napping or quietly playing. Also, right about now, i am DESPERATELY needing a pick-me-up as i see all that i have to get done today (starting in about 20 mins). So, right now, during my cookies and milk moment, i can say: "i know there is a dirty diaper on the floor over there, and dishes i the sink, and crumbs on the floor, and laundry buzzing at me, and... but i JUST DONT CARE!" When my "treats at noon" end, i have to get up and teach a million piano lessons, take Aaron to football practice, and be a mom... But for right now, i will just sit and eat cookies.

ps. i think i am personally keeping chips ahoy chewy in business... (that is what my husband thinks anyways) Honestly, i have been donig "treats at noon" with the same cookies (well, until a few years ago it was just normal chips ahoy) and at the same time for the last 6 years...

Pulling My Hair Out

<-Me in Reality ** Me after a bit of surgery ;)->

Please tell me that I am not the only mom in the world who feels like pulling my hair out! I can not possibly be the only person in the world who is completely overwhelmed with EVERYTHING!!! What is wrong with me? I know there must be people out there who are even MORE involved and MORE busy than I am... HOW DO YOU GUYS DO IT ALL???

I am just having a hard time realizing this is my life.

Monday: 6:15 am - kids wake up.

• Get Joe packed (yes, I pick out his outfits for the week and put them in his suitcase) and on his way to "work" for the week. 7am
• Feed kids, have them practice piano, pack lunch, get them dressed and get Aaron off to school. 8am
• Head to the gym w/the 2 little ones, run whatever errands. come home by lunch - it's naptime for Nate.
• Pick up Aaron from school. 3pm
• Teach 3 piano lessons. 3:30-5pm
• Shove dinner in my kids faces.
• Rush to Aaron's Football practice. 6:00-7:30pm
• Come home, put kids to bed. (later than i want)
• Do Mommy chores (talk to hubby on phone, clean, work on my ind. study course, blog, fantasy football upkeep, do stuff for PTA, never ending TO DO list...)

Tuesday: 6:15am - kids wake up. AGGHHHH already???

• Get kids fed (maybe they are lucky and get a bath?) and dressed. Force child #1 (pouting/yelling/crying) to practice piano, listen to child #2 cry cause SHE wants to practice NEXT (and she does and she loves it). Check to make sure I didnt forget any homework or things to sign...Pack lunches for Aaron and Charity.
• Take Aaron to school. 8am
• Drive Charity's preschool carpool. 8:30am
• WOW toddler bondage time with mommy! hmmm off to the gym! home for lunch and nap time. (cleaning/reading/bloging time for me!) Wait for Charity to come home. 2pm
• Head out to get Aaron from school. 3pm
• Feed kids snacks then head to gymnastics for Aaron and Charity. 4-5pm
• Come home, eat dinner, put kids to bed 7pm
• do mommy chores. Leave at least 1 light on cause without Joe home, I'm scared of the boogie man. 12am

Wednesday: 6:15 am - SERIOUSLY??? Cant you AT LEAST wait for the sun to rise?

• Get kids fed, practice piano, get dressed, pack lunches, Aaron to school, Charity screaming cause she doesnt get to go today. 8am
• run errands, go to the gym, home for lunch and naps.
• Start the piano swap (I teach my girlfriends' 2 kids, she teaches mine) 2pm
• Aaron comes home from school and we finish the piano lesson swap. 3-4pm
• Every other Wed, do Activity days (its either AT MY house, or i am doing the carpooling to the other 'activity days' house). On the off weeks, I pay minimal attention to my own children for an hour. 5-6pm
• Feed kids dinner, put them to bed. 7pm
• do mommy chores. Climb into lonely bed. 12am

Thursday: 6:15am. ok, you guys climb into bed with me, watch cartoons - i will get out of bed when the sun wakes me up.

• Do the whole Breakfast/piano/packing lunch/getting dressed thing for Aaron and Charity... feeling like I AM SO DONE WITH THE KIDS ALL BY MYSELF!!! Get Aaron to school. 8am
• Charity off to school 8:30am
• AHHHH 1 kid left. Head to the gym(maybe)?
• volunteer at Aaron's school (gotta at least TRY/PRETEND to be a good mom?) touch base w/PTA people? did i do everything i said i would?... Nate gets a nap somewhere???
• Charity comes home 2pm
• get Aaron from school... 3pm
• Start the marathon of 5 back to back piano lessons, 3:15-5:45
• rush out the door to football practice, 6-7:30pm
• come home SHOVE the kids in bed
• teach more piano lessons... 7:45-8:45
• clean house cause it is a DISASTER and Joe is coming home!!!
• He is home by 10... ;)

Friday: These days are easier - in fact, the whole weekend seems to blur together. My only job is to clean the house, and get the dry cleaning/laundry done so that Joe has clothes to wear next week. Joe goes into work for a couple hours, then I just have to take care of the kids and keep them quiet while he works from home the rest of the day. Saturday: Aaron's football game in the AM Sunday: Go to Church, Have choir practice at my house, Watch lots of FOOTBALL :), family night... get ready for next week...

Ok, well, after reading this again, perhaps i am not as busy as i feel. i do have the time while my kids are in school to get whatever i need done. i think i am just feeling like those hours from 3-bedtime are just too full? i mean, where is the time for playdates or anything like that? how do you other moms fit stuff in? if you wouldnt mind sharing your wisdom? i would LOVE it! MOM? HOW DID YOU DO IT??? how do you do things and still have time/energy to actually COOK a good meal and give children adequate attention?

Question

Question: Why do nurses give children suckers after they get their shots?

Because Sticky hands + Bloody Cotton + Bandaids = Entertainment all the way home!